i was chatting to someone online the other evening who was fairly new to all of this and the conversation turned to useful tools. i happened to mention something along the lines of how useful and powerful a simple thing as a nappy could be. “Oh”, was the response “Aren’t they just for those adult babies”. The person i was chatting to was in disbelief that anyone other than real babies and ABDL folk could ever wear a nappy. i didn’t even get him started on catheters, but it got me wondering if there is an understanding from Masters of how nappies and catheters can be used effectively & what i, as Master’s property feel about them. In no way am i saying every slave feels the same way, but their use is certainly worth considering.
This is a long post, if you just want the summary, catheters come out on top, but nappies have their use too & of course you can use them together. 🙂
Nappies
i only had an real introduction to nappies or diapers, depending on where you live, about a year ago when i was serving someone online for a few weeks. i had worn them before, but he had me nappied 24/7 and the wearing of them were the main aspect of me serving him. Previous to this i had been 24/7 but only as an aspect of my servitude, if that makes sense. Anyway, i didn’t particularly get anything out of this, which is okay because he did. For me, nappies are something that i can take or leave. They are a good tool and can still be quite powerful but they aren’t something that has to be there. For him however, they were a way of saying that i was owned by him for the short period i was serving him and lower in status as him. He didn’t have to use nappies, was allowed to use proper toilets and i didn’t have that option. They were a form of humiliation and control – a constant reminder of my place.
Humiliation
Humiliation is one of the major reasons to make a slave wear a diaper in a Master’s eyes. However for me while it was humiliating at first that very quickly wore off. i soon realised that no one really cares and just think there must be a medical reason or just thought they were normal underwear or pretended not to notice. Just the wearing of them was never humiliating for me, even when wet. It was a sign that i was owned, Master had a higer status and a reminder to follow orders but that’s something different. There were however aspects that i did find humiliating for short periods of time but quickly got over. i think Master understood this and did keep evolving how i was to wear them. Starting off with just wearing them under clothes, then pissing them in public, making sure the waist band was showing above my jeans when out, moving on to printed Crinklz nappies (my now favourite), then making me wear my jeans so the back was showing completely, next having me answer the door in them with no jeans, changing in the gym with them on, answering the door and changing in the gym with them wet & wearing multiple nappies at once or wearing a nappy so full it starts to leak et cetera . Each of these things was humiliating at first, but it soon wore off. For me to be humiliated in nappies would have required things to continuously evolve – and unfortunately there are limited ways in which it can do that.
Status
Wearing a nappy helps emphasis that i am somehow beneath Master but there are pluses and minuses and it is really difficult to explain the trade off. First of all there is the rustling sound. While it doesn’t embarrass me as such it does remind me that i am owned and somehow different to Master. i know that people can hear it when things are quiet and it reminds me that there are some things that are different about how i live my life. Its the same for the swell when they get wet and the extra weight as well. Master checking my nappy or asking me to show it to him so he can see if it is wet contributes to emphasising my status too. Only a slave would have to do this. Then there is the fact that even my piss shouldn’t be treated the same as Master’s and rather than it going down a toilet i am to carry it about with me until it can be disposed of properly. The negatives are related to layers of clothing. i don’t get to wear underwear at all normally but if i wear a nappy for wearing a nappy’s sake then i trend to associate it with underwear and that raises my status in my head. Depending on my thoughts depends on if that outweighs the positives at a particular time. It’s completely different if i can see a reason for wearing a nappy and it is a necessity – as with some of the things below. Then I see it as a tool, not clothing.
Psychological
Putting a nappy on a slave can have a very big psychological impact when used properly. It says to the slave that it could be doing something, dressed in a certain way or doing something for an extended period of time. Even if Master does not intend for it to be long, the slave does not know this and the The last thing on the mind of the guys below is ABDL but I can guarantee they have thought and feared that they could be shocked, used as furniture, caged, bound etc for a very long time & indeed they could.
A tool when serving
The final aspect i’m going to talk about with regard to nappies is the way in which they allow a slave to focus more on serving. It no longer has to stop to pay a visit to the toilet and can used the time it saves to focusing on the task in hand. Again there is a psycological factor. Wearing a nappy says that Master is of course more important that the slave being able to take toilet breaks. At first I found I still had to stop and stand still to piss, but this was trained out of me and i was able to go wherever and whatever i was doing. Downsides are that the slave is still in control of where and when it pisses so it still can not focus completely on Master. One way round this is to get it to ask for Master’s permission, but this will counteract any time savings that could be gained and may inconvenience Master.
Another the salve wearing a nappy could be a tool to help the slave better serve Master is by providing somewhere for Master to piss should he get caught short at any time.
What to do with the slave’s waste
There aren’t many options here other than to eventually throw it out. Psycologically though that is quite a powerful thing. Where as Master’s piss goes into a toilet the slave’s doesn’t belong there and is only fit for the bit. Of course Master could make the slave wear it’s nappies in various ways, such as on it’s head or feet before disposing of the nappies.
Other factors
If you are planning to keep a slave in nappies 24/7 it’s important to remember that it does restrict access to it’s cock, balls and hole. One of the reasons i normally have the pockets cut out of any shorts or trousers i wear is to allow master better access and a nappy defeats that. There also isn’t much of a opportunity to use them with multiple slaves other than to keep them all in nappies or perhaps wear each others once wet. Maybe some sort of game where they rub up agains one and other could be fun for Master to watch.
Catheters
Catheters are something that first expericed at the same time as I was kept nappied 24/7. The guy i was serving wanted my nappies wet, but i have a bladder like a camel and it was taking far too long for this to happen so he got me to fit a catheter so that i had no control over when i filled the nappy, there was just a slow constant flow. Like with nappies there are pros and cons to having a slave wear a catheter. Like with nappies, the cons can be mitigated against to minimise their impact. Of course with a slave being constantly drained there is the issue of what to do with it’s waste but that is something that shouldn’t be an issue for Master who should just give his orders and it is up to the slave to make it happen.
Humiliation
Of course other slave’s may be different but, unlike with nappies, i never quite got over the humiliation of wearing a catheter, even though most of the time it wasn’t obvious that i was – certainly not as abvious as a nappy was. The bright yellow tube sticking out from my penis and the loss of control that meant i was in effect constantly pissing myself was enough to keep my humiliation levels just about right. i.e not enough to prevent me from wanting to do anything and not too over cautious. The times that it was obvious that i was wearing it, such as in the changing rooms, really did heighten the humiliation, though i think that would be something i would get used to in time. Likewise, i don’t think i would be too humiliated if with other slaves & Masters. But that’s the same with nappies as well.
Status
Again, like nappies a catheter helps to emphasise the slave’s position. But it does it a lot more effectively. Where as there is still the element of control for the slave with a nappy in that it still has some control over making itself piss this is completley removed with a catheter. For me it felt like i had given up control of the one last things i still had some degree of control over, the functions of my body. The was emphasised by the fact that i douce twice daily so when wearing a catheter no longer use the toilet at all like my superiors would. I also had to constantly think about where the waste was going and make sure it would not be an inconvenience. Wearing a catheter says to a slave that it shouldn’t use a toilet like it’s superiors do, that it shouldn’t have any control over it’s bodily functions and the fact that it produces piss is an inconvenience for Master but he might make use of it at times – i’ll come to that later. Again the fact that it has to go somewhere and is often collected for future use reinforces status.
Psycological
This is where the benefits of a catheter start to come into their own. Because one can be inserted for a few weeks (or months with certain ones) without much maintenence and it dramatically changes the way the slave functions and behaves a Master can use everything from insertion to the fact it is constantly pissing to removal/change to emphasise that the slave is different and beneith Master. That the slave is changed from how it used to be, that it is completely under Master’s control and has given up everything for him and that it is all done so that it can better serve Master etc. There can also be other psycological factors that having a slave wear a catheter could bring. Take the nappy example above. If they slave were wearing a catheter it doesn’t just think that it could be there for a long time it thinks there could be no reason for Master to change its situation for an extremely long time, which is something in certain situations that it could find terrifying. The semi-permanance of a catheter also means that the slave does not know from the outset what could last for a long time and what isn’t likely to. They all could last a long time. Master also still has access to it’s balls, hole and penis so can torment these as well any times he wanted. The slave can also be left to drip piss on itself as a form of water torture or be forced to directly drink it’s own piss or give itself an enema. Psycologically these are very powerful things for most slaves.
A tool for serving
Having a slave in a catheter means that there really is no reason for it not to focus on serving Master with all its effort 100% of the time. It no longer has any need to stop at all for toilet breaks or to change it’s nappy. It doesn’t need to think about pissing at all because it no longer does so on it’s own and doesn’t need to bother Master to seek permisssion. Sure it may have to collect it’s waste but it’s a very short job to do so & it is up to the slave to make sure it does this in a way that suits Master’s needs at the time and in a way that doesn’t stop it serving.
What to do with the slave’s waste
There are a number of options here, unlike with nappies.
Catheter bag: The most traditional way. The slave could be connected to a catheter bag by a tube that it either has to carry around with it for added psycological effect or is attached to it’s leg with bands. it’s piss is collected in the bag over time. Bags do need to be drained or changed, but this is a very quick job and the slave should be able to manage it so that there is no effect on serving Master. This is a good way to collect the slave’s piss for future use, for example to provide it with refreshment or a shower.
nappy: The catheter could be combined with a nappy so that the slave is constantly filling it’s nappy. This is one of those situations where wearing a nappy is a tool and as such is something i would still find fairly humiliating though other may not. Of course the nappy would start of normal but would uncontrollably swell through the day and start to show under clothes more and more. The nappy does need to be changed but i found that i went much longer between changes as i wasn’t focusing on how much i filled it – often getting to the point it started leaking after about 12 hours use. i also found that i had to reach down the front of the wet nappy every hour or so to reposition the tube. Suited to use around the house, in public, over night use or at times where a bag isn’t an option. Because of how much it fills it could cause the slave to have to adjust how it walks, moves or sleeps
Just Dripping: Probably not one for in Master’s house. There is nothing that says the slave has to collect it’s piss at all. it could just be left to drip out. i found this very demeaning and probably the most sub human of them all. This could be done when the slave is working in the garden or other places outside. It could be used to keep the slave in one place (e.g. over a bucket). If the slave has a cage with a base it could also be left in there to drip piss onto the base and sleep/spend time like that. At least it would always have refreshment. There is also a use for this in public. Have the slave wear some jeans or shorts and it will not be able to control how noticeable this is or how wet it gets as the patch constantly grows.
Other factors
If you need a constant flow of piss as if the slave were pissing normally you can do this by attaching a clip for a while. Remove the clip and you get full flow piss from the catheter but again the slave has no control over it. Be careful with this though, you really don’t want to be over filling the slaves bladder by keeping the clip on for too long.
Unlike with nappies, Master still has access to the slaves penis, balls and hole and can make use of these as he sees fit.
Catheters have a use when there are more than one slave. They can be used to feed the slaves for example or in other ways
