In about 2 weeks I am going on holiday for a week, It is a bit last minute and I am not going far, just hopping on a ferry to Germany for a week. I haven’t been on holiday for a few years and am really looking forward to it. Until then it is kind of business as usual.
When I get back, things at home will be a bit different for a while. I friend has just got himself a temporary job for 3 months. It has the prospect of being permanent after this but obviously he doesn’t want to take a 6 month lease on a place to live if he then doesn’t get the job permanently. I’ve said he can stay with me for a bit, the problem or issue that I will have is that he is very very vanilla, as is his girlfriend who will be visiting at times. Because I don’t want to offend or cause either of them embarrassment I won’t be able to follow the majority of my ‘un-owned rules’ while he is in the house. It will also put some restrictions on the weekly tasks I can do.
The tasks are the easy part to solve. I can still do some things and whilst I’ve been doing ones on getdare.com mainly I have recently learned about Milovana.com and these are probably more suited to my need to be more private. I’ll be focusing on completing one of these weekly until my lodger leaves.
The rules are a bit more difficult to sort out.
I’ve got a set of rules that I follow because I’m un-owned, they are on the site here. They aren’t as detailed as the ones I used to follow when I was owned, but until now they have been practical. They would certainly freak my friend and his girlfriend out, which isn’t fair.
I am used to the rule I have now and feel they develop me in different ways. I don’t want to abandon them completely but I will need to adjust them temporarily whilst the lodger is with me. I actually feel really bad changing them myself. Normally my instructions come from a Master, I don’t believe I should be setting them as a slave but needs must. I am going to spend the next week re-writing them to come up with something within the spirit of the original, still as harsh, but possible while I have a guest. If any readers have any suggestions I will incorporate them.